Saturday 24 January 2009

“Smile and the World Smiles You. Cry and You Cry Alone”

“Smile and the World Smiles You. Cry and You Cry Alone”

According to research from the United States, we smile for many different reasons.

1. There’s the listener/response smile. When two people are having a conversation, the listener smiles to encourage the speaker.

2. There’s the polite smile. This is the kind of smile you make when your aunt gives you a horrible birthday present.

3. There’s the miserable smile – for example, when you go to the dentist and he tells you that you need to have a tooth taken out.

Very often, these social smiles are not real; they are “fake” smiles. Fake smiles are easy to do – you just have to tighten the muscles on your mouth.

But there’s only one smile that is the smile of true enjoyment. This smile is extremely hard to fake. It involves the muscles at the corners of the cheek and the muscles around the eyes.

When someone gives a true smile, the eyes get smaller, and you see little wrinkles around the edge. The eyebrows go up, and on some people, dimples appear in their cheeks.

The genuine smile of enjoyment not only makes us feel good, but makes others feel good too.

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